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Being Happy

-by David Dubb
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Almost everyone has heard the hit single 'Don't Worry, Be Happy' by Bobby McFerrin. The song has a catchy way of transmitting its message of being happy to everyone. Bobby's simple message surely made and makes a lot of people happy and content by telling them not to worry. Living a happy, resilient and optimistic life is fantastic, and is also good for your wellness. Being happy actually protects you from the strains of life. Strain is connected to leading causes of death such as heart disease, cancer and strokes. One of the better things ever said is - 'The only thing in life that will always remain the same is change', and in our life we have the ability to make the necessary changes if we desire to. Even if we find ourselves in an unbearable situation, we can always find consolation in the noesis that it too would change. Social networks or relationships are requisite to happiness. People are different, accept people for whom or what they are, ward off frictions, constant arguments, and let go of bitterness. If arguments seem unavoidable, do your best to understand the situation and you will probably find that you can actually tolerate and get along with the other side. Happiness is found in everyone, enhancing it is a way to make life grand and healthier. To be happy is relatively simple; it is for to decide. Abraham Lincoln observed that most people for most of the time can choose how happy or stressed they would be. The choice is simple yours, choose to be happy. Here are a few tips to keep you happy and less stressed out. For me, being grateful is on the top of this list. We have so much to be thankful for. Thank the taxi driver for bringing you home safely, thank the cook for a wonderful meal and thank the person who cleans your car. Thank G-d for being here and being able to read this article. News is stressful. Get less of it. Some people just can't begin their day without their daily dosage of news. Think about it, 99% of the news we hear is bad news. Starting the day with no news is good news and a good way to open today's door. Manage your time. Time is priceless and too important to waste. Time management can be regarded as a list of rules that involves scheduling, defining goals, planning, creating lists of things to do and prioritising. These are the core basics of time management that ought to be understood in order to develop efficient and effective personal time management skills. These basic skills can be fine tuned further to include the finer points of each skill that can contribute that extra reserve to achieve the results you desire. Laugh and laugh heartily every day. Heard a good joke? Tell your friends or family about it. They also know -'Laughter is the best medicine. Express your feelings, affections, friendship and love to people around you. They will most probably reciprocate your actions. These are just a few simple things you can do everyday to stay happy. Always remember the quote from Abraham Lincoln, "Most people are about as happy as they make up their minds to be."

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Personality and what’s the Genuine You?

Personality and what’s the Genuine You?

-by David Dubb

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Personality like several matters in life is kind of solid and can be challenging to define

occasionally. The more common definition is the relatively balanced characteristics

that are enduring and distinguishing which implies that it separates people from the

crowd. Psychologists who study personalities try to psychoanalyze why people

behave differently in varied situations, such as how come one person is shy when they

first encounter a stranger or, while some people are simply natural and amusing. A

few scientists conceive that these are genetically engraved and that people do not have

much control over this. Other psychologists believe that the surroundings bear an

important say in the manner people behave. The reality is that personality is a multi

dimensional issue and requires pieces from several theories since everyone is unique.

One theory is the psychodynamic perspective which was identified by Sigmund

Freud. This theory fundamentally states that personality simply exists on the surface

and to find someone's true personality you have got to delve deep in their mind.

Psychologists who favor this approach consider that personality is an unconscious

mental process, or that the individuals are incognizant that they are conceited or

confident. He was recognized for his controversial theory that young boys bear a

sexual attraction to their mother, perhaps he was relating to himself and his romantic

relationship with his mother who was 20 years younger than his father. A theory

about the unconscious mind that creates reasonable sense is, when people having a

conversation call someone they know a different name. For example, if a woman

ended a relationship with her boyfriend and got a new boyfriend and calls her present

boyfriend by her ex boyfriend's name, it could signify that he is still in her thoughts.

Freud also conceives that dreams hold important motives in behavior. He also

believed that personality could be built into layers suchlike an ice berg. The

component that is buried well below the water is the id or the unconscious aspect. A

good example is children, because many times they pursue pleasure without thinking

about the end result. If folks would have a strong id personality, this would be a very

chilling place to live. People would pursue natural impulses instead of meeting

society norms. The ego is pleasant to have because it assists people to recognize

reality and help meet society norms. For example, many people realize that they can’t

have their sex and hostility levels high and unmanaged because once they let it go it

usually leads to crimes suchlike rape for one. Lastly, the superego also referred as the

conscious aspect is the moral decider. It decides what is right and what is wrong.

Several psychologists did not adopt Sigmund Freud's unconscious theory. One

psychologist that was to a great extent against it was Alfred Adler. He believed that

people were motivated by aims and goals in order to achieve something in life. He

also believed that people have the power to be well aware of what’s going on in their

lifespan and to consciously monitor their daily events. He also believed that people

attempt to compensate for things they do not possess. For example, an individual that

attempts to be superior may being doing it due to their own insecurities merely

because they will feel better about themselves by bringing others down. This theory

was called "individual psychology", in which states that people are motivated by

purposes and to achieve goals. When people seek to overcome their insecurities this is

called compensation.

When psychologists disregard the unconscious they tend to look at the surroundings

more, when determining personality, this is known as the "behavior approach". They

conceive that you are able to only determine personality by what you see on the

outside surface. For example, if someone is shy, works hard and is motivated to

achieve something, this is a part of their personality. This theory was founded by an

early psychologist named Burrhus Frederic Skinner. He also believed that a person’s

personality could change due to the stress with the surroundings, so he believed that

personality was never consistent. Now, a person who is shy could be tilted to become

aggressive and out going, and a person who is out going could be tilted into a shy

personality all due to their environment. If an individual is applying a positive

strengthener for a particular behavior, it is more likely that it will come up again in

the future.

A different approach from Freud and Skinner’s theory is the humanist approach

discovered by Carl Roger. This approach is less pessimistic; it finds the good in

mankind and conceives that humans have the freedom to choose their own fate. The

fundamental idea in Roger’s approach is self concept, which is an individual’s view of

their own abilities, behavior, traits, and personality. If a person experiences a twisted

self concept then most likely they will be awkward to hang around and associate with.

When psychoanalyzing self concept Rogers talked of identifying yourself between the

real self and the ideal self. The ideal self is the character of person we would like to

be. If an individual bears a large conflict between their real self and the type of person

they would like to be then the clumsier or maladjusted they will act. To adjust this we

should try to focus more on our real self and develop a positive view on it, stop caring

what other people want or expect of us and attempt to have more positive experiences

in our daily lives. Another way we can help develop a more positive view of our real

self is by a concept known as "unconditional positive regard". This term could be

defined as: accepting different individuals regardless of their behavior which is rather

difficult to do. When an individual is being rude, aggressive, or disrespectful, they

still need support and to be loved. This does not mean you need to hug someone after

they punch you, but more like “I don’t like the way you are behaving but I still care

about you and respect you as a person.”

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I joined and took the upgrades - I figured, they offer a money back guarantee so why not..? You are not in any way required to take the upgrades to get the benefits of the site. However, they do multiply the benefits out by a few hundred times I have found, plus the fee is pretty small for the extra exposure you get... so I grabbed it.

What a concept - I must say.
The world of marketing online has been dying slowly for a while now as people are fed up with 'opting in' and getting mail boxes filled with nothing of any meaning. Spam is the killer.

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My vote is that this site is going to put a lot of dough in my pocket over the years to come.

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